The Story of Us…MoMo Twins and Heartache Yet Again

22 Dec

This is the continuing story of “The Story of Us” – the road that my wife and I faced in our infertility battle and road to have our daughter. If you’d like to read past stories, please visit the link at the top of my page.

It was around March of 2009, Liz and I had just found out that we were pregnant with twins. Then quickly found out that “Baby B” was not doing well – this baby’s heartbeat was only around 69 beats per minute. Doctors want to see it at least over 100. This was only part of our worries however – yes, we were concerned about how we’d afford double diapers, formula and double everything, but that was not the main concern. We had learned that our twins were what were called “momo twins”. Basically, they could touch each other while they were in my wife’s belly! This isn’t how it always happens. Being this way brings it’s own complications. The twins cords could get wrapped around each other’s necks more easily, cord compression was possible, as well as twin-twin transfusion syndrome – as always I had read too much.

We focused on getting baby B’s heart rate up. Of course, there was nothing we could physically do to improve this – but we prayed. We dreamed of what it would be like to have twins. We loved the idea while everyone around us thought we were absolutely crazy. I’ll admit, I was panicking a bit because of the financial side of it, but we would make it work. Liz and I have always been this way – any difficult situation we know we’ll make it through. We know God will first see us through, but we know He will give us the wisdom, as well, to figure it out. We believed he would do the same in this situation.

However, this pregnancy would end just as the previous two had. Liz began having complications and called her doctor. They told her to come in – again, they could not find either heartbeat. I think at this point we were really beginning to think this just isn’t going to happen for us. We could not believe this was happening again. We thought we had found the answers with removing the septum – that this was the problem for Liz, but apparently not! Unfortunately, Liz now faced a difficult decision. In the next few days, Liz would have a D&C to remove the babies from her body. This was absolutely one of the hardest days for us – driving to the doctor’s office, knowing what we were going in for.

To this day, we still talk about the twins – what they would have been like, what it would have been like to have twins. Losing any pregnancy was bad enough, but for some reason that left a deeper mark.

Soon, Liz and I would be making a big move – could things turn around then?


Posted by on December 22, 2011 in Baby, Infertility, Parenting, Uncategorized


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4 responses to “The Story of Us…MoMo Twins and Heartache Yet Again

  1. Brandi

    December 22, 2011 at 9:43 pm

    How far along were yall with the twins?

    • Brian

      December 22, 2011 at 9:45 pm

      We were almost 8 weeks. I was writing that into the blog – realize now I didn’t finish that thought! Ha!

  2. scott

    December 23, 2011 at 5:03 am

    I sure hate to hear that y’all had this happen again. Praying foe for you!

    • Brian

      December 23, 2011 at 7:16 am

      Oh no dude – this I from back in 2008! I’m writing through all the things we went through to get where we are now with maddy. Sorry for the confusion – its hard to write about the past and all. I’ve had several people ask me about it though. I didn’t do a great job of posting dates in this one though.


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